Thursday, September 22, 2005

Pep talk

I had a pep talk with my cousin about relationships. I was feeling rather agitated when I started the conversation but he is very patient and explained to me about his theory behind relationships.

"A man-woman relationship, it is not about bringing two-halfs together. It's about bringing two-wholes together and making them an integrated whole. You should be fulfilled and steady before getting into a relationship with another fulfilled and steady individual. If you bring your emptiness into the relationship, it'll just go down. The whole point is that you need to be self-satisfied."

After listening to him, I felt much better.

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